After making several threads about my inability to form relationships with women, I think that I have learned that I'm not very charming. Also I'm a 21 virgin who's never made out or hooked up with a girl before. There are articles both in print and online claiming that it only takes a woman seconds to decide whether or not she will sleep with a man. A woman is inclined to select a mate she deems suitable for producing viable offspring.I guess that I lack the rhetorical prowess to spark/maintain a girl's interest in me. I believe that this realization at least partially explains why women often ignore my texts , messages on POF , etc. I fear this will really hinder my progress with women. In this case, is sounds like natural selection is at work. No amount of smooth talking will make her go to bed with you if you're not what her inner cavewoman desires. More and more, I'm starting to think that it is about luck and biological attraction.My advice is for you to go out, find activities that you can share and enjoy with other people, make friends and grow your social circle.This should increase your probability of meeting someone that finds you sexually attractive.
However, without that sexually chemistry, which is deeply rooted in biology, you'll never go farther than a purely platonic relationship.
As the genre progressed, the format developed towards a reality-style show and more into a relationship show then simply finding a mate.
The dating game show subgenre has its origins in the United States.
If she gives you attitude/the cold shoulder, don’t return the bad mojo.
Instead, remain your confident self as you walk past her and look for someone else to approach.